And he said I couldn’t surprise him

by Gloria on 21/06/2010 · 49 comments

in Family

My husband loves surprises. He loves being surprised and he loves planning surprises. He surprised me when he proposed in Boston on an elaborate surprise trip, he surprised me with a packing list for our honeymoon instead of telling me the destination. And those are just two examples.

Several weeks ago we were all eating dinner and Dave began to tease me in front of everyone about how I can’t surprise him. That’s only partially true. It’s true that I don’t surprise him very much even though I know he loves surprises. But it’s not because I don’t try. It’s just that my surprises aren’t nearly as effective as his.

I have this problem: I can’t seem to keep surprises a secret for very long. I’ll buy him a Christmas present in November, then I’ll show it to him on Thanksgiving. Awful problem, I know. And here’s the kicker… Dave is very smart. Very smart. He figures out surprises I want to do for him before I can even think of them. So you see how I am in a Catch 22 with trying to do surprises for him?

Anyway, I went to the doctor’s office on Thursday to get a checkup and walked away with a big secret. If only… I could… keep it… a secret… until… Father’s Day… in 4 days… I so desperately wanted to call our families and a few of my dearest friends and let them in on the secret. But I knew if I did that then the surprise would be all over and I would end up talking about it in my sleep or something.

Well, Mr You-Can’t-Surprise-Me, I did it.

I didn’t tell a soul. I kept this little secret between me, the Lord, and my obstetrician.

Check out Dave’s reaction to opening his Father’s Day Card on the “Top of the World” observation deck of the Burj Khalifa…

You’ve probably already guessed what the card said…

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1 allison June 21, 2010 at 12:16 am

This just brought tears to my eyes…. YAY FOR CHEEKY MONKEYS!!!

2 Leigh Kay June 21, 2010 at 12:32 am

wow!!! I am overjoyed for you both!! :) How wonderful a surprise you were able to give him.

3 Sue Bohlin June 21, 2010 at 12:32 am

YAY for Gloria keeping surprises! And YAY for the new little one! So happy for all of you!!!

4 Chris June 21, 2010 at 12:38 am

Cheeky Monkey #3 is going to treasure that picture.

Congratulations from Fort Worth.

5 shawnda June 21, 2010 at 12:40 am

That is AWESOME!!!! Congratulations!!! ; )

6 brady June 21, 2010 at 12:45 am

AWESOME!!!

7 Jamie & Tim June 21, 2010 at 12:46 am

We are SOO excited to hear this great news! Great job keeping that secret! :) Can’t wait to meet new baby Furman sometime….

8 ruth June 21, 2010 at 12:48 am

Oh what a wonderful Father’s Day surprise!! Congratulations!!

9 Jeannie June 21, 2010 at 1:00 am

WOW!!! What an awesome moment captured on film… thanks for sharing it with us. Glo- I’m so very excited for you! And incredibly amazed and proud of your ability to hold that in for nearly a week :)

Happy Father’s Day indeed.

10 rikki June 21, 2010 at 1:06 am

1. great great news!
2. congratulations!!
3. major props for the surprise! i’m sooo terrible at surprising eric…and THAT kind of surprise would have leaked in about 4 minutes, not 4 days!

11 Margaret K June 21, 2010 at 1:07 am

So great to hear!! congrats!!!

12 Laurie Cuchens June 21, 2010 at 1:09 am

Oh! I love that story!!!! Tell Dave he needs to top THAT one!!

I am not happy I have to wait 7 months to find out who this little one will be! But surely we will know the gender before then…or is that going to be a surprise too!! :) I wonder if he/she will be born close to your birthday? So, so happy for you all!!

13 Emily Curtis June 21, 2010 at 1:25 am

Yea!! Congratulations to all of you!!

14 Brandi Mcfadden June 21, 2010 at 2:05 am

Gloria, what a great Father’s Day surprise. I did the same idea with Jeremy for Christmas (with monkey number 1), but I only had to wait 2 days and it was torture! So glad you got to surprise him!
Congrats to your entire family!
love, brandi

15 melissa June 21, 2010 at 2:06 am

That is such a fun surprise!!!! Congratulations!!! So happy!!!

16 Cherie June 21, 2010 at 2:16 am

Oh, how I love when you share these things with us! My heart is popping with joy as if I were there to see it! He’ll never beat that surprise, so you’re all set now. : )

17 Shuranda June 21, 2010 at 2:55 am

A big congrats on the little blessing growing inside you AND pulling off being able to surprise Dave. One surprise he will never forget! I am so excited for yall!

18 Liz Miller June 21, 2010 at 3:17 am

AHHHH!! I am so exctied for you guys!!! Congratulations!

19 Kimberly Copeland June 21, 2010 at 4:24 am

YOU WIN!!!! Congratluations Gloria, David, Aliza and Norah!!!!

20 Prem & Kathy Gulati June 21, 2010 at 5:24 am

We are so excited for all of you!
Praising God for His goodness,
P&K

21 Jenny June 21, 2010 at 5:38 am

Congrats, Glo!!! What a blessing! SO excited for y’all!
And your method – WOW – what a way to BLESS your husband! Well done!
Love to you and your family of FIVE! :)

22 Christy June 21, 2010 at 5:53 am

OH MY WORD! What a great way to surprise him! SO excited for you guys…and for that little munchkin to be so blessed by being a part of your family! :)

23 Meredith June 21, 2010 at 5:55 am

What a fantastic surprise! And what a fantastic picture of Dave’s reaction! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!

24 elise cole June 21, 2010 at 6:00 am

Yay!!! What a wonderful surprise! and for Father’s Day, too!!

25 Nikki Foster June 21, 2010 at 6:16 am

AMAZING!! Congrats!!

26 Jesse Janis June 21, 2010 at 6:24 am

Look at his face!!!!
Gloria Furman, you win!
We are soooo pumped. I gave the good news to kate wright tonight at church, and she’s soo excited about taking care of a pregnant lady. we love you furmans.
~jesse
have another girl, and she is marrying our son. dibs.

27 Kasey June 21, 2010 at 6:31 am

Oh, that made me cry. Congratulations!

28 Beth June 21, 2010 at 8:05 am

Congrats Gloria and family! What exciting news, and great pictures as always!

29 Nicole Lamb June 21, 2010 at 8:29 am

NO WAY!! That is awesome Gloria! Congratulations you guys…I am soooo excited for you!!

30 Linda June 21, 2010 at 8:40 am

Congrats to all of you… blessings and hugs. :)

31 Josh and Kristi June 21, 2010 at 10:12 am

Congratulations!! We’re so excited for you guys! What a priceless expression on Dave’s face! And, you caught it on camera!!

32 Angela June 21, 2010 at 11:03 am

Congratulations!!! SO thrilled for you all!

33 John Dyer June 21, 2010 at 4:04 pm

Hooray, horray! It brought down the web server!

34 Diane Hague June 21, 2010 at 4:08 pm

Congratulations to all of you! Our God is an Awesome God!!

35 Tammy Avants June 21, 2010 at 5:16 pm

Congrats Guys!!! So excited for you!

36 Celeste June 21, 2010 at 5:18 pm

YAY!!!! LOVE the story!!

37 monica June 21, 2010 at 10:34 pm

Congratulations!!! We are so excited for you guys. Ya’ll have such a beautiful family…much love and God bless!!!

38 KatharineC June 21, 2010 at 11:54 pm

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

39 Daisy June 22, 2010 at 11:38 am

:) Lovely surprise! Congrats and God bless!

40 Aarif June 22, 2010 at 11:44 am

love the expression on dave’s face :)
GOD bless you and make everything easy for you and new comer.

41 Priya June 22, 2010 at 3:28 pm

Awesome….Congratulations…hope you got my text last night…..a fantastic surprise indeed!!!!!!!!! nothing can beat that………..

42 Michael June 23, 2010 at 3:20 pm

I love that look on Dave’s face :)

43 Philip Elliott June 23, 2010 at 9:23 pm

Congratulations! Jenna is the same way. I always get gives the day of or the day after she bought them because she can’t keep a secret and I usually have it figured out. So, props to you for keeping this huge secret under wraps until fathers day. That is so awesome.

44 Allison Moncus Cornell June 24, 2010 at 12:03 am

That’s awesome. # 3!!!!I am so excited for you guys and will be praying for Dave’s arm.

45 Tabatha June 24, 2010 at 1:15 am

Yeah! Go Furmans! This is amazing and what a blessing, welcome to the 3 club…let the chaos begin. You will love it.

46 Temple June 26, 2010 at 9:36 pm

Praise God! Dave+Gloria=precious babies!!

47 Judy June 27, 2010 at 1:04 pm

Congratulations!!! How exciting and I absolutely LOVE the look on Dave’s face! We are praying for the surgery to be successful and that you get a spare seat on the way home for Cheeky Monkey No. 2.

48 millie June 29, 2010 at 4:34 am

congratulations!!! i was just catching up on my google reader and teared up at both of the posts with the news. so excited for you all!!

49 Pam June 29, 2010 at 6:17 am

This will keep me smiling for days & days!

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